I have been dating a guy for 6 month now. Every thing has been great. He is thoughtful (he buys me flowers twice a month just because). I feel like he really listens to me. We have great conversations. A few months ago i feel the courting phase died out. We stopped going out on as many dates but we still met up and spent time with one another. A week ago we were talking and he told me “If I were a better man you’d be perfect for me”. He cancelled a date on me but we spent time together the next night. He cancelled again on me a few days ago now he seems to be MIA. What gives?

  Dear Miss Givens (not Robin)

  You have done absolutely nothing wrong my dear. You did exactly what you were supposed to do. You believed in this man. You trusted this man. You tried to build with this man. However this just was not the man for you. When someone tells you who they are believe them with the fullness of your heart. He showed you the representative for as long as he could then it started to wane ( a few months ago when you started going out less). He tried for you because he saw how good you were for him. My observation is that this man saw your light and your beauty and wanted to capture it. He tried to change but he realized he is not at the point in his life to be the best man for you. The way he let you know was immature  but at least he let you know. Sometimes men/ people aren’t the greatest communicators and you Sweetheart should just forgive him and move on. Thank him for the good times and wish peace&blessings. You are not at fault in any way. Trust your instinct a little more next time. Keep your head up Queen, your King is coming

 XO